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Improvements

  • Couples can now update their gender to single male or transgender themselves, and from female to male, single male, or single female to transgender, and vice versa, without contacting Helpdesk.
  • We have redesigned the Album tab under Settings to make its features more visible and offer a better user experience and guidance.
  • Private party owners now see their parties listed within their group.

Advanced Member Search

Finding your matches on SDC has never been easier! Using our Advanced Search feature allows you to really narrow down the criteria and find members that you are looking for.

First, select if you are looking for Couples, Singles, or Transgender; it allows you to select more than one option if needed, including those members who are looking for you!! After that, you can go into as much or little detail as you wish, including their Subscription Status, Sexuality, Body Type, Age, Relationship Orientation, and much more…  

The Location option allows you to seek out those you are interested in within a mile radius of your location, and if you're traveling, you can update that location to where you will be for the weekend, for example.

Another cool feature is that you can save your search criteria by simply sliding the slider at the bottom of the page to the right and then clicking OK. This will save you time next time you want to use this feature.

The Advanced Search feature can be found in the main menu under Search or by clicking the magnifying glass icon located at the top right of your screen.

We hope you find this feature helpful, and as always, we are available to answer any questions you may have.


SDC Premium

Introducing SDC Premium, now included with your paid full subscription on SDC.com!

You’ll get access to even more of what you already love on SDC: - New podcasts - Exclusive videos - Expert articles - Real stories from members of our SDC community - Education on sexuality, wellness, relationships, & more!

Start exploring SDC Premium here!

Not a full member yet? Upgrade your subscription here or sign up to become an SDC member.

SDC Book Club

Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books written by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members.

This month, we are introducing the binge-worthy new book Housewife Turned Hotwife, AngelRanee’s real-life erotic confessions! Step into the hot pink stilettos of AngelRanee, a real-life shy suburban Housewife turned sexy, adventurous Hotwife. Follow closely as she walks through her day-to-day journey of balancing a stable, loving marriage while indulging in a salacious extracurricular life of Hotwifing. AngelRanee’s confessions are very erotic, a little bit quirky, and super sweet — just like her. Read Erotic Confessions of a Housewife Turned Hotwife, available on Amazon Kindle, paperback, and hardcover.

SDC Contests

Congratulations to LUIZEMONICACASAL for winning the My Hot Tub Adventures Writing Contest!

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by: Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers Paradise, Morgan Reynolds, and STD Hero.

Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:

Current – After the Party – Writing Contest
Voting Underway – Couples Chemistry – Video Contest
Voting Underway – The Seductress Stare – Photo Contest

SDC Shop

Are you attending an SDC event or another open-minded party soon? Then we have something for you! From now on, you can shop the best SDC items that are guaranteed to make you stand out.

In our shop, you'll find a fantastic collection of t-shirts, swimwear, towels, caps, and even bathrobes. All featuring the stylish and recognizable SDC logo. Perfect for completing your look and showing your true colors. Ideal for the party, by the pool, or just relaxing at home!

For anyone planning their own party or simply wanting to be well-prepared, we also offer a variety of hand extras, including lubricants, boat flags, beach flags, parasols, and other fun items.

www.sdcshop.com

Upgrade your BNB Profile

Sometimes, it’s the little things that get overlooked in the hosting hustle. Here are a few quick tips to help your space shine and bring positive energy (and bookings) flowing in! Snap it Like it’s Hot First impressions matter! Blurry phone pics? No thanks! Swap out those low-quality images with high-quality professional photos that really encapsulate the vibe of your space. Make your place look irresistible and have guests mentally moving in before they even pack. Clean is the New Sexy Clean space = clear vibes. And in the lifestyle scene? Hygiene isn’t just appreciated; it’s essential. A spotless environment helps guests feel comfortable and ready to enjoy themselves. Make sure you brag about your hygiene standards in your listing; nothing ruins the mood like questionable surfaces. Set the Mood, Seal the Memory Want to really wow your guests? Put together a cheeky welcome kit packed with goodies, flirty surprises, and treats that set the mood. It’s a sweet little secret that not only will your guests love, it will also keep them coming back for more. Ready to turn up the heat and fill your place? Go make your listing the hottest thing on the site.

Cruise News

Ahoy, SDC Members!  

We are more than thrilled to offer the option to learn more about lifestyle cruising within our SDC community. SDC is fortunate to have Bliss Cruises on board with us to offer you personalized service right here within our site. We also recommend joining the Bliss Cruise group so you don’t miss out on important information, and it's a great way to connect with fellow cruisers before you go!

Check out some of the cruises on offer for 2026 / 2027:

Bliss Cruise: Celebrity Reflection - November 2025 - WAIT LIST AVAILABLE - SDC Guest List

FantaSea Connections Cruise - February 2026 by Right Connections Travel - Book today - SDC Guest List

Bliss Cruise: RCI Radiance of the Seas - February 2026 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List

Bliss Cruise: Celebrity Silhouette - April 2026 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List

Bliss Cruise: RCI Wonder of the Seas - November 2026 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List

Bliss Cruise: Celebrity Summit - February 2027 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List

Bliss Cruise: Celebrity Silhouette - April 2027 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List

FEATURED WEBINAR HOST

Frisky Neighbors

Join Carnelian and Saphyre as they unravel the intricacies of ethical non-monogamy and the swinger lifestyle.

Dive into personal stories, debunk myths, and get inspired by interviews with others in the lifestyle. Whether you're curious or a seasoned participant, discover a community where every relationship is celebrated.

Join the guestlist for Carnelian and Saphyre’s upcoming webinars on SDC!

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FEATURED EXPERT

Dr. Stephanie (Evolve Your Intimacy)

Dr. Stephanie Sigler is a Certified Sex Therapist (CST), Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), and Ph.D. who founded Evolve Your Intimacy to address the unique challenges faced by individuals and couples in non-traditional and non-monogamous relationships. With a passion for helping people design relationships on their own terms, Dr. Stephanie empowers clients to move beyond societal expectations and create meaningful, fulfilling connections that reflect their true desires.

Through Evolve Your Intimacy, Dr. Stephanie provides education, counseling, and practical tools to help clients strengthen communication, resolve challenges, and create relationships that truly thrive. Known for her compassionate and empowering approach, she is dedicated to guiding individuals and couples toward deeper intimacy, authentic connection, and lasting fulfillment.

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